Widow Words
by Marcia A. Curran
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For New Widows Unique Book Makes a Loving Gift of Empathy When a husband has died, the new widow’s world is shaken to the core. It doesn’t matter how “independent” or “dependent” the relationship may have seemed to others. When a marriage ends because the husband has died, the wife will grieve in ways no one else can know. No one else except another widow. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Marcia A. Curran is a journal writer, a mother, a grandmother, and a recovered widow whose husband died at age 56. She lives near Boston, MA. To request a review copy of Widow Words, to arrange an interview with the author, or to have cover art sent electronically, please contact Kate Bandos at KSB Promotions: 800-304-3269 or 616-676-0758; fax 616-676-0759; kate@ksbpromotions.com Widow Words 100 Simple Pieces of Advice from Another Widow by Marcia A. Curran Self-Help / Grieving 112 pages; 5.5 x 8.25; ISBN: 978-1-889242-33-0 / ISBN-10: 1-889242-33-0 $15.95 jacketed hardcover, pub date July 2007 Published by VanderWyk & Burnham, www.VandB.com Distributed by National Book Network, Inc. (NBN) Widow Words is available at bookstores nationwide, online, and at www.VandB.com or call 800-789-7916. Please send two copies of any review or mention to VanderWyk & Burnham; P.O. Box 2789; Acton, MA 01720-6789 |
Early Praise for Widow Words![]() ![]() ![]() —Marta Felber, grief counselor, widow, and author of Finding Your Way After Your Spouse Dies and Grief Expressed When a Mate Dies. |
About the Author Marcia A. Curran is a journal writer, a mother, a grandmother, and a recovered widow whose husband died at age 56. She lives near Boston, Mass. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Sidebar and Story Ideas Note: Although the book Widow Words speaks directly to widows, and the following ideas use the word “widows,” many of the ideas are equally valid for widowers.
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Excerpts How could anyone except another widow understand what you feel when your husband dies? Oh, people might think they do, but let’s be honest—did you understand before it happened to you? I didn’t. There are no words to describe waking up the first morning after your husband has died and thinking, I’m a widow. How can this be? What am I going to do? Some inner strength gets you through the wake and the funeral, but the days, weeks, and months afterward are full of unrelenting see-saws of emotions. I’m here to proclaim the good news that you will find happiness again. I am a widow. I am also a journal writer. One day while reading a magazine article about “average” women’s journals, I got the idea to write about my personal experiences as a widow based on my “average” journals, which I had been keeping for years. Each thought, idea, and practical suggestion has been personally experienced by me. I am not a doctor or a grief counselor. I am a widow who loved and lost her husband. I know how you feel because I had the same feelings when my husband died. Here are my widow words, written to help you cope with your loss. May your path back to happiness be a journey without too many detours. copyright 2007, published by VanderWyk & Burnham He loved you and you loved him. Simple—True—Precious. Good friends don’t mind if you show up uninvited for a cup of tea and to talk. Sell his truck (or car). Even the neighbors feel sad looking at it. Investigate all funny noises in your home. You won’t think it’s so funny when the hot-water tank leaks onto your rug. Learn how to use a fire extinguisher and change a smoke alarm battery. Buy a carbon monoxide alarm and have a shutoff put on your washing machine. Believe in yourself. We all have an inner strength that some people never have to use, but others do. It’s there. There is no law saying you can’t keep your side of the bed even though you could have either side now. Checking the obituary column to see if anyone else died at your husband’s age is normal. Think. Don’t you want to leave your children and grandchildren the legacy that you had the courage to go on without him? Our children are our children. Our husband was our husband. Enough said. |
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